Ideas & Trends

Bogged down by wedding planning tasks and duties? It’s easy to get lost in the hubbub of planning and to lose touch with the spark between you and your soon-to-be spouse. Here are ways to keep the love alive - even in the middle of the busiest of days.

Read to Each Other - Before bedtime each night take turns reading love poems to each other. Alternatively, get hooked on the latest young adult novel series together and take turns reading the chapters aloud. Snuggle up with a mug of hot cocoa and enjoy the sound of each other’s voice.

Write to Each Other - When was the last time you wrote your fiance a love note? Prepare yourself for the task of writing your wedding vows by letting your sweetie know just how much he means to you right now - in writing.

Surprise Each Other - Surprise her with reservations at her favorite restaurant, surprise him with tickets to see his favorite band or do something as simple as offering an unexpected foot rub after a long day at work.

Touch Each Other - Snuggle, hug, kiss, and give each other massages. Touching is a way to reconnect after a period of stress or conflict. Making a conscious effort to be physically affectionate with one another will further deepen your bond and make each other feel loved.

Talk to Each Other - Tell your fiancé how much he means to you. Take her by surprise and instead of talking wedding logistics, tell her why you’ve chosen her to be your wife. Or simply tell each other about your respective days. Although your mate already knows you love and appreciate them, everyone loves to hear it out loud.

Listen to Each Other - Let your partner talk about what’s on his mind without responding or trying to fix his problems. Practicing the art of listening is a skill you’ll take into your marriage and will become a valuable tool for the years to come.

Support Each Other - Empathy goes a long way in a relationship. If your partner is having trouble, imagine yourself in their shoes and let them know that you can identify with their struggles. Giving one another validation fosters intimacy.

Compliment Each Other - Let your man know how attractive he is to you. Tell your lady what an amazing cook she is. Look for the good in each other and tell each other about it. It’s easy to see each other’s faults, but make an effort to recognize the good.

Appreciate Each Other - As simple as it sounds, saying "thank you" goes a long way in a relationship. Appreciation and gratitude for one another is revealed in the smallest of gestures, so don’t forget to thank your mate for letting the dog out or washing the dishes.

Go Away with Each Other - Take some much needed time out and get away for a romantic weekend. Stay at a bed & breakfast or a cabin in the woods and just enjoy being with each other - no distractions from caterers, florists or mothers!