It is a daunting task to have to come up with a perfect bridesmaid gift that all of your leading ladies will appreciate, especially if you're trying to think outside of the silver, monogrammed jewelry) box. But before you throw up your hands and resign yourself to ordering the standard engraved photo frame for everyone, stop! Put down the mouse, back away from the ' Useless−Monogrammed−Knickknacks−R−Us.com' website, and consider one of the more unique options listed below. These ideas can be used specifically, or as a springboard for your own imagination. Also, keep in mind that there is no one−size−fits−all bridesmaid gift, so don't feel like you need to give everyone the same thing. Your bridesmaids will appreciate the love and care you put into choosing something special that reflects their individual tastes, and there is no reason to break the bank in order to show your appreciation for their involvement in your special day. With a little creativity (and some helpful hints), you will be able to give your girls a gift that they might actually (gasp!) use.
Gift baskets
This is a great gift to tailor to your bridesmaids' particular interests, especially if you have a small number. For example, if you have a yoga enthusiast in your wedding party you could put together a basket of yoga gear and a gift certificate for some classes in her town. A wine connoisseur might appreciate a couple of lovely glasses and a special bottle from the local area where you are getting married. If you have a larger number of attendants, or would just rather not figure out individual baskets for everyone, something like a movie night (think a wedding−themed DVD or two, plus a fun popcorn bowl and maybe even a snuggly blanket), or pedicure kit would work for everyone. I mean, who doesn't like movie night and pedicures? Either one of these is sure to be a crowd pleaser.
Interesting Jewelry
I know, giving jewelry is not a revolutionary idea, but I am not talking about the same silver toggle bracelet that everyone has. (Even though I do love silver toggle bracelets…so much that I gave them to my own bridesmaids!) If you want to give jewelry, but are in the market for something original, look for artisan jewelers who create pieces that add interest to everyday outfits, but are also elegant enough for a special occasion (such as a wedding!). Check your local farmer's market and craft fairs (now that they' re coming into season) or poke around online to find a creative jeweler who fits your style. One of my favorites is Erin McDermott. She ships nationwide and takes custom orders for beautiful, unusual and reasonably priced pieces, and features a whole line of unique bridal and bridesmaid's jewelry.
Flasks
Excuse me, but why do groomsmen get to have all the fun? This standard groomsmen's gift is also a great idea for ladies who like to have a good time! You can find personalized flasks available online, and some companies, like such as www.weddingstand.com and www.americanbridal.com, even make them available in girly colors. How ladylike! Just a little word to the wise: If your bridesmaids are anything like my friends, and you plan to present them with fully loaded flasks, you might want to give these gifts after the ceremony in order to avoid an impromptu dance party at the altar.
Girl−on−Girl Bondage −− I Mean Bonding (But Now I Have Your Attention!)
Sometimes a little group QT is the best gift that you can give to your gals. This is especially true if you are including friends and family who don't get to be together very often. Consider treating your bridesmaids to an activity that you can all enjoy together such as a group lunch, spa treatment, or cooking class. After all, a wedding is all about creating joyful memories, right? There's no better way to do that than spending some pre−wedding quality time with your girls.
Whatever you choose to give your bridesmaids, I have one final piece of advice: Don't give anyone anything with your and/or hubby−to−be's names or monogram on it. It may be difficult for you to recognize because of the thick wedding planning haze that's blurring your vision (I know − I had a serious case of wedding goggles myself), but please believe me when I say that this is only the biggest day in the history of the universe for you. Chances are, your friends haven't been dreaming about your wedding day since they were girls, and they probably aren't going to celebrate your anniversary every year by watching your wedding video while drinking champagne. Here's my point: Keep it in perspective. If you want to personalize their gift, whatever it is, make sure it's with their information instead of your own. Happy giving!
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