Wedding Blog

  • Mistakes Every Daughter-in-Law Makes: Mistake # 1

    Photography by April Greer - see more at www.aprilgreer.com

    There are few brides that enter a marriage without some concerns about their new husband’s mother. The dreaded mother-in-law stigma is all too common but there are a few simple things you can avoid that will save you from repeat mother/daughter zingers that we all experience from time to time (some of us more than others!). Although these exercises started off as a tongue-in-cheek coping mechanism, once I began putting a few of these strategies into practice, I noticed that my mother-in-law’s attitude started to shift (as did my own) and a true friendship began to form. Now remember this will not happen over night. Changing the cycle takes time and effort. The bottom line is while you’re correcting these mistakes, really and truly try to learn to appreciate your mother-in-law and she will learn to appreciate you.

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  • The 10 Strangest Wedding Laws Still in The Books

    Photography by Cameron Ingalls - see more at www.cameroningalls.com

    While your wedding day is undoubtedly one of the most magical and beautiful days of your life, marriage is also known for being complicated and stressful. But if the everyday “which way the toilet paper goes” and “don’t squeeze the toothpaste from the middle” issues weren’t enough, throw in America’s legal system concerning marriage and suddenly ordering those flowers, booking your entertainment, and making that guest list seems incredibly simple in comparison. Below is a list of the ten strangest marriage laws in the country.

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  • Planning Tip of the Week - A Goodies Buffet

    Photography by A Bryan Johnson Photo - see more at www.abryanphoto.com

    Candy buffets can be a great centerpiece to any wedding. Cater the candy selections to the appropriate general age group of your guests.

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  • The Value of Value!

    Photography by Parris Whittingham - see more at www.pswhittingham.com

    Let’s face it. Girls love to shop. Being able get the lowest price in the shopping department is a skill many women pride themselves in. However, when it comes to your wedding you may want to step back and consider a slightly different approach. While everyone would rather get something for nothing, when considering vendors for your event you also want to keep in mind that you are investing into a very important day of your life; quite possibly the most important day of your life.

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  • Breathe Deep!

    Planning a wedding is SO stressful! Sometimes, all you need to do is step back and take a deep breath. But, most of the time...you are up to here, with budgeting, tastings, scheduling, measuring, etc. You’re spinning around in circles!!

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  • Mother-in-Law: Foe...or Friend?

    Photography by Milton Gil Photographers - see more at www.miltongil.com

    There has to be some magic technique for dealing with mothers-in-law! After all, almost every wife you know has issues with hers…

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  • I (Still) Do!

    Photography by Anna Kuperberg - see more at www.annakuperberg.com

    Beautiful flowers, elegant music, heartfelt vows, the gathering of friends and family to witness the joining of two people. Are you thinking of a wedding? Although it does describe the elements often part of a wedding ceremony, we are in fact describing a “recommitment ceremony.” Commonly misunderstood as an anniversary celebration, a recommitment ceremony is much more meaningful and unique.

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  • Planning Tip Of The Week - Table Numbers

    Photography by Cameron Ingalls - see more at www.cameroningalls.com

    From couples using the word love in different languages to titles of favorite songs, reception table "numbers" have taken on a personality all on their own!

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  • Don't Play YMCA!

    Photography by Cameron Ingalls - see more at www.cameroningalls.com

    Take it from someone who attends weddings on a weekly basis, your DJ may try to play “YMCA” and other severely outdated moldy oldies! If you have had enough of songs like “Brick House,” “We Are Family,” and “Love Shack” than I suggest a detailed music consultation with the Disc Jockey you are considering to oversee your event. This will save you a lot of grief when you hit the dance floor.

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  • TLC Wants You to Audition!

    Photography by Milton Gil Photographers - see more at www.miltongil.com

    Southern California's husbands- and wives-to-be: TLC is looking for 3 lucky couples to team up with TOP NOTCH CHOREOGRAPHERS who will turn their first dance into an unforgettable production number!

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  • Shhh...It's a Secret.

    Photography by Milton Gil Photographers - see more at www.miltongil.com

    I’ve had a number of couples contact me to perform their wedding ceremony who have already, in fact, tied the knot. In recent years, marrying before the originally planned ceremony date is not at all uncommon. Reasons range from insurance purposes to immigration issues or maybe it was simply a spur of the moment decision. Whatever the case, invariably these couples wanted the fact that they were already married to remain a secret.

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  • 10 Generic Wedding Gifts to Avoid at All Costs

    One of the most symbolic elements of weddings, right up there with cutting the cake and strolling down the aisle, is the giving of wedding gifts. However, many guests fail in this department.Go to full post

  • Planning Tip of The Week - Out of Town Favor Bag

    Gift baskets chock full of local goodies for your out-of-town guests are always a great idea!

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  • What Has he Done For You Lately?

    Photography by Parris Whittingham - see more at www.pswhittingham.com

    When I get an inquiry for my services from the groom-to-be, I am always impressed. Overall, grooms tend to be less active in the wedding planning process. Let's face it, the wedding industry is largely catered towards brides. However, men can and should contribute more…and we’re not talking about money. There’s plenty of work and fun to go around.

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  • Old Fashioned or Romantic?

    Photography by Milton Gil Photographers - see more at www.miltongil.com

    There was a time when getting married was no more than a financial or familial arrangement. This style of marriage arrangement is still practiced today in many countries around the world. The courting gentlemen would present the woman’s father with money and/or dowry to prove his ability to care for her welfare. A bargain would be made without the bride’s consent, a business deal of the heart.Go to full post

  • You could be on We TV!

    We TV is a station dedicated to connecting strong, confident women with fun, entertaining, shows focused on trends, style, relationships and culture.

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  • It's the Season

    Photography by April Greer - see more at www.aprilgreer.com

    Spring has arrived. Here in the San Francisco Bay area, Mother Nature has presented us with a stunning array of plants and flowers. The daffodil, poppy, tulip, magnolia and iris compete for attention with the flowering plum trees that line each block. It's a beautiful time to have a garden wedding. And (not to rub it in) the temperature has hovered around 70 degrees lately. It’s the perfect weather for an outdoor ceremony.

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  • Planning Tip of The Week - Going to a Bridal Show

    Photography by Cameron Ingalls - see more at www.cameroningalls.com

    Attending a bridal expo is as much overwhelming as it is exciting! Here are some suggestions to make it a fun and stress free experience:

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  • Changing Your Name--Where to Start?

    Photography by Milton Gil Photographers - see more at www.miltongil.com

    These days, there are so many versions of the marital name-game that it can be dizzying to consider all of the possibilities. Should the bride keep her maiden name or just use it professionally?Go to full post

  • Audience or Participants

    Photography by Milton Gil Photographers - see more at www.miltongil.com

    Whether you've invited 30 guests or 300, you've invited them because they are special to you in some way--special enough for you to desire their presence as you make one of the most important transitions of your life. These people, be they family, friends, co-workers, neighbors, or parent's friends are there to witness your marriage and join you in celebrating.

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  • 10 Places You Shouldn't Go on a Honeymoon

    Photography by Nicole Goddard - see more at www.nicolegoddard.com

    Most couples look forward to their honeymoon with wide-eyed anticipation, awaiting a night of fiery passion and picture-perfect romance that would put any Hollywood chick-flick to shame. In pursuit of this lofty goal, couples book breathtaking week-long getaways in exotic places like Hawaii or the Caribbean. And, in most cases, these romantic excursions deliver the goods. Lots of romantic moments, special memories, and pictures that bring the memories from the fleeting present into the distant future. Unfortunately, not every place can produce such memories. There are some places you should never go on a honeymoon, and this article profiles 10 of them.

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